The Mairangi Bay Dees Social Group for people living with dementia
Meeting a Growing Community Need
Life can be tough for folk living with dementia and for their caregivers. There is a growing understanding of the benefits that occur when people with a dementia diagnosis spend time away from their caregiver in a structured programme of socialising and exercising the mind and body. Back in 2010, in response to emerging community needs, Mairangi Bay Presbyterian Church started up the Dees Social Group for those living at home with dementia.
The Mairangi Bay Presbyterian Church leaders and congregation were looking at how they could further serve their community and Presbyterian Support Northern’s Enliven came and talked to them. They advised of a growing number of people with dementia who were isolated at home and a vision for a programme to support them and their caregivers. So, the church offered to partner Enliven to launch the Dees Social Group.
Presbyterian Support Northern offers professional oversight and the church provides their facilities, a coordinator, volunteers and organises a programme of activities in a safe and caring environment.
A Safe Space for Connection and Joy
The group meets from 10am to 2pm each Thursday in the church hall and lounge. Activities include socialising, ball games, indoor bowls, tai chi and exercising to music, board games, quizzes, cards, bingo and singing. Joining in to sing the old favourite songs which takes place in the last half hour of the session is particularly popular.
Over the last 15 years more than 100 people have attended the Dees Social Group. One of the original members still attends. The roll is limited to 15 members at a time to ensure there is one volunteer for each two members.
“The impact of the Dees Social Group is evident in the positive effects of stimulation and engagement it has on the members with dementia, as well as the much-needed break it provides for caregivers. The volunteers also benefit from engaging with the group and building relationships with the members.”
Here's what Dees’ participants and their caregivers have to say of their experience:
“John loves attending the Dees group each Thursday. It gives him a purpose for the day, something to look forward to and give shape to his week. He feels very welcome, enjoys the company and regular activities, and sees people doing things which encourages him to give new things a go.
As John’s carer, Dees gives me the satisfaction of knowing that John is spending his time enjoyably and with purpose in a secure and safe environment. And the few hours I get without him is invaluable.”
— Bernadette
"Dees group is simply wonderful. The volunteers make everyone feel so at home. It’s a warm, inviting and caring environment that is like a sanctuary for my Mum. It’s the highlight of her week to meet with 'a great crowd' where in her words 'you always get a good laugh'.
As mum’s full time carer, it can be really hard at times and the Dees group provides a place where I know my Mum is cared for and happy, while I can catch up on work. Thank you for all you do to make this group as special as it is."
— Claire
“The Dees group means a lot to my husband. He enjoys the activities and fellowship with others in the group. He's made good friends and feels safe and cared for. He looks forward to Thursday mornings and I get to enjoy some invaluable “me” time.”
— MB
Continuing the Work
Tangi Joseph, the Dees Social Group Coordinator employed by the church, oversees the programme and welcomes inquiries and visits to experience the group in action. The church also welcomes support and funding opportunities to continue and expand its community activities.
For more information, contact:
Tangi Joseph at 022 657 3223
Stewart Milne, Parish Clerk, at 027 293 8499